I was exploring through the net and just got hold of your blog, It was a nice read (Super MoM and DaD)I have read it from start to end.

But to my surprize, I believe your views are an exception( and exception don’t make a rule) and can’t be generalized. Just to put my view point in more broader way. Would like to put it in sequential manner.

1.) Your Views(in the blog) may be a part of all Cream Dala cream schools (where fee’s are very high)like : GD Goenka, Bhatnagar International, Ahlcon, K R Mangalam or Step by Step etc.

We are having some 20 Lac school’s (18.5 Lac Public and 1.5 Lac Private) in indian. But the dilema is not all private school’s are like above mention schools.
Still the education system is more or less same across the length and breath of Indian (I mean the way we did our schooling)

2.) In earlier days, we hardly have any family planning kind of thing(so more children) but now a day just after marrigae couple’s first priority is family planning – and in due course of time they either have one or maximum of two child.

So their entire world come’s down to one or two children, So the focus is more towards that child.

3.) In Todays case Both parents are earning hand – They spend their hard earned money for their only child. This may be one of the reason why they know when a teacher sneezes in the class.

Well I am cutting it short, there is nothing wrong in monitoring a child and every parent lookup to them as an investment (because they are pumping up their hard earned money for their education) so I believe there is nothing wrong if they don’t want their ward to fail. No Invenstor will ever look for a negative outcome of their investment.

What kind of outcome are the parents looking forward for its their child “SUCCESS” and not failure.Parents always think good for their child and its an Universal Truth.

Thanks and Regards
Rashid Mahmood

कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती.

नन्हीं चींटी जब दाना लेकर चलती है,

चढ़ती दीवारों पर, सौ बार फिसलती है.

मन का विश्वास रगों में साहस भरता है,

चढ़कर गिरना, गिरकर चढ़ना न अखरता है.

आख़िर उसकी मेहनत बेकार नहीं होती,

कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती.

डुबकियां सिंधु में गोताखोर लगाता है,

जा जा कर खाली हाथ लौटकर आता है.

मिलते नहीं सहज ही मोती गहरे पानी में,

बढ़ता दुगना उत्साह इसी हैरानी में.

मुट्ठी उसकी खाली हर बार नहीं होती,

कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती.

असफलता एक चुनौती है, इसे स्वीकार करो,

क्या कमी रह गई, देखो और सुधार करो.

जब तक न सफल हो, नींद चैन को त्यागो तुम,

संघर्श का मैदान छोड़ कर मत भागो तुम.

कुछ किये बिना ही जय जय कार नहीं होती,

Feel so blessed to have known such a wonderful person like you,could not thank God enough for it.

-Rajeev
(Published Author, Teacher/Trainer)