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		<title>By: kerrylee2004</title>
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		<dc:creator>kerrylee2004</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 10:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Shalini</title>
		<link>http://www.razz-ma-tazz.net/2008/04/14/being-alone-in-a-crowd/comment-page-1/#comment-82</link>
		<dc:creator>Shalini</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 12:59:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My email is nambiar.shalini@gmail.com ...Well I am the author of this Blog and want to help you guys out ....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My email is <a href="mailto:nambiar.shalini@gmail.com">nambiar.shalini@gmail.com</a> &#8230;Well I am the author of this Blog and want to help you guys out &#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Shalini</title>
		<link>http://www.razz-ma-tazz.net/2008/04/14/being-alone-in-a-crowd/comment-page-1/#comment-81</link>
		<dc:creator>Shalini</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 12:57:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Cleo and Maribeth</p>
<p>I happen to read your comments and felt sad .Yups we all have our moments of sadness and loneliness but remember that life has to move on . It&#8217;s extremely important to look for positivity , feel good about yourself .<br />
Cleo you need to stop feeling insecured and start doing this &#8230;Look into the mirror everyday morning and tell yourself ..&#8217;I am the best and I am good&#8217; &#8230;.The only person who can help us to overcome our insecurities is us ourself &#8230;look for ways to smile and make others smile &#8230;that gives one immense satisfaction and security &#8230;We are all alone &#8230;it&#8217;s just a fallacy that people help us &#8230;no it&#8217;s only we who can help ourself&#8230;Read the following story it will make you realise ..and do send me your emails so that I can forward you more positive posts and make you feel the difference . The best part about you both remember is that you know what is bothering you and for every problem the solution lies with us only . Be positive and you will attract all positivity towrads yourself. Read this story&#8230;.</p>
<p>? A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: &#8220;I am blind, please help.&#8221; There were only a few coins in the hat. </p>
<p> A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words. </p>
<p>Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, &#8220;Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?&#8221;<br />
The man said, &#8220;I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way.&#8221;<br />
What he had written was: &#8220;Today is a beautiful day and I cannot see it.&#8221; </p>
<p>Do you think the first sign and the second sign were saying the same thing? </p>
<p>Of course both signs told people the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective?<br />
Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively.</p>
<p>Invite others towards good with wisdom. Live life with no excuse and love with no regrets. When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile. Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith and drop the fear. </p>
<p>Great men say, &#8220;Life has to be an incessant process of repair and reconstruction, of discarding evil and developing goodness…. In the journey of life, if you want to travel without fear, you must have the ticket of a good conscience.&#8221; </p>
<p>The most beautiful thing is to see a person smiling…<br />
And even more beautiful is, knowing that you are the reason behind it!!!<br />
Remember: WHEN YOU&#8217;RE BUSY JUDGING PEOPLE, </p>
<p>YOU HAVE NO TIME TO LOVE THEM. </p>
<p>Cheers !!! and enjoy urself as we live only once and life is too short to feel insecured and unhappy &#8230;&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: maribeth</title>
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		<dc:creator>maribeth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 05:51:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hello again
my mobile 09077071004</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hello again<br />
my mobile 09077071004</p>
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		<title>By: cleo</title>
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		<dc:creator>cleo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 05:40:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi me again..the 12 yrs old girl from philippines..i dont know why i&#039;m not happy,,and i dont know why i&#039;m insecure and jealous..i&#039;m impatient..and sometimes hard to handle..i&#039;m first year high school.. going to school evryday seem like a burden because of my classmates..i dont like some of them..can you plsss advice how to be happy?? and dont mind other people</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi me again..the 12 yrs old girl from philippines..i dont know why i&#8217;m not happy,,and i dont know why i&#8217;m insecure and jealous..i&#8217;m impatient..and sometimes hard to handle..i&#8217;m first year high school.. going to school evryday seem like a burden because of my classmates..i dont like some of them..can you plsss advice how to be happy?? and dont mind other people</p>
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		<title>By: maribeth</title>
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		<dc:creator>maribeth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 05:35:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hello..!!! i&#039;m beth i have a problem now..of love...i dont have a partner in life,,i&#039;m so alone..i have one daugher 12 yrs old..i&#039;m 12 yrs separated 32 yrs old..its hard to be a single mom..when you shoulder all your problems and cant show to your daughter that you have so many problems..i want a partner in life to love ,me and understand me and to help me...in future till we get old together..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hello..!!! i&#8217;m beth i have a problem now..of love&#8230;i dont have a partner in life,,i&#8217;m so alone..i have one daugher 12 yrs old..i&#8217;m 12 yrs separated 32 yrs old..its hard to be a single mom..when you shoulder all your problems and cant show to your daughter that you have so many problems..i want a partner in life to love ,me and understand me and to help me&#8230;in future till we get old together..</p>
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		<title>By: cleo</title>
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		<dc:creator>cleo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 05:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hello..i&#039;m a 12 yrs old girl..sometimes i feel alone too..when no one understands...sometimes i dont really know who i am..and what makes me happy..i&#039;m insecure..and i&#039;m walking..but not on my mind..plss advice me..i&#039;m insecure so insecure and jealous..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hello..i&#8217;m a 12 yrs old girl..sometimes i feel alone too..when no one understands&#8230;sometimes i dont really know who i am..and what makes me happy..i&#8217;m insecure..and i&#8217;m walking..but not on my mind..plss advice me..i&#8217;m insecure so insecure and jealous..</p>
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		<title>By: Anil Dhyani</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anil Dhyani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 15:11:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, like someone said in his comments, we are actually alone always.. Being social animal and the way we have been brought up, we tend to associate ourself with our fellow beings more than many other things existing there in the nature..If we analyze it carefully, we wud realize that we have been taught right from the beginning, how to be unhappy..We are always taught to compete, to excel, to do more and better than others, to do more and earn more materials and wealth..My trying to be different than others makes me &quot;ALONE&quot;..I try to carry a different identity, pose different style, diffrent status and thus get into that black hole called &quot;LONELINESS&quot;...

The day we realize that we are our best friend and the best company, we wont need anybody and wud never be alone ever...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, like someone said in his comments, we are actually alone always.. Being social animal and the way we have been brought up, we tend to associate ourself with our fellow beings more than many other things existing there in the nature..If we analyze it carefully, we wud realize that we have been taught right from the beginning, how to be unhappy..We are always taught to compete, to excel, to do more and better than others, to do more and earn more materials and wealth..My trying to be different than others makes me &#8220;ALONE&#8221;..I try to carry a different identity, pose different style, diffrent status and thus get into that black hole called &#8220;LONELINESS&#8221;&#8230;</p>
<p>The day we realize that we are our best friend and the best company, we wont need anybody and wud never be alone ever&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: monica</title>
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		<dc:creator>monica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 18:01:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Shalini
I feel this article relates to everyone once in a while and apart from being a good listener and helping others ,i feel it is important to pour out ur heart to someone u trust by just revealing ur problems to ur friend half of the tension expiates and rest half can be solved with 2 minds together as i think until u don`t trust others and ask what u need u will never get it as not everyone can read your heart and mind. it is important to ASK!!!
Thanks for writing such beautiful and heart stirring articles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Shalini<br />
I feel this article relates to everyone once in a while and apart from being a good listener and helping others ,i feel it is important to pour out ur heart to someone u trust by just revealing ur problems to ur friend half of the tension expiates and rest half can be solved with 2 minds together as i think until u don`t trust others and ask what u need u will never get it as not everyone can read your heart and mind. it is important to ASK!!!<br />
Thanks for writing such beautiful and heart stirring articles.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 06:24:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yups ...being alone yes we r all alone.....people in this world are your friends when they need you ...have been so bittem with life that hats off to the author for putting the feelings so beautifully.......Where are those people who use to listen to me ....now they dont want to because im low ...they like to spend time with me when Im happy ....what about those moments when i need them or more specifically him.............</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yups &#8230;being alone yes we r all alone&#8230;..people in this world are your friends when they need you &#8230;have been so bittem with life that hats off to the author for putting the feelings so beautifully&#8230;&#8230;.Where are those people who use to listen to me &#8230;.now they dont want to because im low &#8230;they like to spend time with me when Im happy &#8230;.what about those moments when i need them or more specifically him&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.</p>
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